Monday 24 November 2014

Crazy Little Thing Called Love


This 'Crazy Little Thing Called Love' really got me yesterday.

Someone should have warned me to bring extra tissue paper to watch this show.

My tears started falling in the sketch called 'The Ledger People'. It is about a married couple keeping score for each other and saying "I love you" just to earn another point in each other's book. By the middle of the next sketch called 'Word Picture' which summaried the conflicts of modern day marriage , I was literally crying my heart out.  

Someone should have warned me a play like this would brought back memories of an undeniable past.

These two sketches meticulously exposed the constant struggles in a marriage - you vs me, me vs us, and us vs family. It reminded me so much how I felt when I was a wife working for my then husband.  The feeling that how good I was as a wife depended very much on how good I was at my job, in making money for the firm.  The feeling that I have to sacrifice everything including my heart and soul for the sake of the family. The feeling that the more I yearned for his love, the more I scared him away...

Someone should have told me this crazy little thing called LOVE is so addictive that even after a failed marriage, I still believe in love for :

LOVE ALWAYS HOPES.   ALWAYS PERSEVERES.




Saturday 22 November 2014

我們

我懷念"我們"

那沒開始,便已經結束的我們

那只憑一個眼神便心領意會的我們;
那投契得連我們自己都害怕的我們;
那疼錫到不忍任何傷害對方的我們;
那明知再走下去會翻不了身的我們;
那多麽不捨也要放手向前走的我們;
那連一張像情侶合照也沒有的我們;

那似無還有,似有還無的我們

我懷念"我們"